Grieving the loss of a loved one is difficult enough, but when the relationship is non-traditional it can become even more complicated. When the LGBTQ person cannot openly mourn the death of a loved one or when society at large disenfranchises this grief, heartache is turned inward and the healing process suffers. Sadly, sometimes folks disenfranchise their own grief. Secrecy, shame and guilt are a few of the grief reactions commonly expressed in the LGBTQ community. Turning grief inward can result in isolation, use of unhealthy coping strategies and feelings of depression.
Members of the LGBTQ community who have experienced the death of a loved one, especially of their significant other, may not have the support from family and friends that heterosexuals come to expect when a loved one dies. Family and friends may not understand the relationship or may be angry at their loved one and partner. Some family and friends may not have known about these relationships as they could have been kept hidden for years. This all complicates the mourning process and impacts mourning rituals. Please use this group to share your stories.
There are no topics or posts in this group.
Return to Home
Who is online
Users browsing this discussion group: No registered users and 1 guest
You cannot post new topics in this discussion group
You cannot reply to topics in this discussion group
You cannot edit your posts in this discussion group
You cannot delete your posts in this discussion group